Tips to take lessons ill

During our mental health surely is the main passions in his life career. We just try and Allah is decisive, but sometimes the disease also came without the law and disrupt the daily agenda of people who were attacked by the disease. Regardless of what triggers the illness by a doctor.
a few days ago we were not able to on-line as usual because of illness. His name is also a blogger, with the pain finally dapet also a title for this post deh.

Tips We provide a way this should be done to take advantage of sick, so be patient and every inch of our lives always have value reward from God Almighty. Among which must be done is as follows;

1. Besides the expert doctor visits, do also pray. Pray recognized by all religions have a supernatural power which encourages outstanding optimistic of the things that we try. Now with a sense of optimism as a key provision to combat the disease from the body. Because there is a saying that 75% of the drug comes from within ourselves, including the willingness and efforts to recover, while 25% are from outside the self.

2. do not be too focused on the sick organ, because there are many of our organs are functioning properly aka healthy. This meant that we remain a servant who is always grateful to God Almighty.

3. keadaann ill do it in contemplation, so that we always can always use a healthy time in perfect condition, as hadith prophet who more or less meant as follows:

"Take five things before the arrival of five other things, the life before you come you die, your senses before coming ill, when you relax before your busy, your youth before old age comes to you, when you're rich before you hermits"

4. patient in each pulse of pain, because every pain will reduce the small sins of our.

5. he he eh .. maybe ill also come because of our own negligence in terms of health care. So subtract blogging at night on an empty stomach or too deep to force myself to work ..

NOTE:

Make all the things that happened as a capital for the worship of God, including whipping pain. The hands of the believers worship could be worth anything, as long as we all can reap the lesson. Please read the content healthiy tips

Tips on talking to steal sympathetic

to socialize with anyone, whether co-workers, family or just people who we know even need communication. Means of communication in this regard so many kinds, with a gesture, a smile, with the writing and the most widely used is the word.

Referring to the title above, tips themoretips it will limit ordinances relating to lure other people with words, from the tone, intonation, language structure and word choice used. Words are the main capital in interacting with other people, if we communicate well our run will be personality that can be accepted by all people with kindness, and vice versa if we use language we often offend other people in the middle of the community life uncommunicative even ho ho ho so terrible, especially if the words because we have the social sanction of the members of the community.

A person is considered authoritative when communication goes well built, and vice versa. Between TIPS to speak to others is:

1.said with polite and not loud, talking loud to disturb other people, because it affects the psychological tone, with said gently sympathetic aura will show the speaker's personality itself. Remember the commandments given to Moses as meek to speak with a fragment of verse is Fir'un
وليقولوا قولا لينا
"And said with gentle words"

2.said to others with a kind word, not a language that can hurt other people .. every word will be consumed by the liver, if it had been pierced by the words it will always be forever remembered.
In this piece of God's word verse. An-nisa ': 5
وقولوا لهم قولا معروفا
"speak to them words of kindness'

3. Said to be consistent, he said according to what they are, do not lie .. because the words of a lie will hurt people who lied, but say it with honesty as QS fragments. an-nisa ': 9
فليتقوا الله وليقولوا قولا سديدا
"And bertaqwalah to God, should you say with the right words"

4. said by someone else with intent to deliver something. Do not provoke reactions of others. Saying something in a language that resulted in wing alan others is wrong and not a trace tagkap to the other person, it is based on a fragment of the word of God, (Surat an-Nisa ': 63)
وقل لهم في أنفسهم قولا بليغا
"And say to them the words that scar on their souls"

5. said by choosing language that is easily accepted, do not say the language is difficult, if there are other language options are more straightforward then just say degnan straightforward language and clear. (Surat al-Isra ': 28)
فقل لهم قولا ميسورا
"Then say to them, saying the proper (acceptable)"

6.said well and adjust the weight of the contents of the word, people will assess the content rather than on hard to say whether intonation and conversation. (Surah Al Muzammil: 5)
إنا سنلقي عليك قولا ثقيلا
"We will reduce the weight to the words"


NOTES
Use the time given to you to talk a good and solid short, choose a straightforward language and clear, kerana others will prove your personality in what you say

You are the lion's mouth you, if you are wrong in saying he will pounce on you. if you want to read other conten please read arrogant impoverish tips

Arrogant impoverish tips

A few days ago the manager of this blog in the sovereign as a lecturer in the majlis study groups on the outskirts of Jakarta, in one lecture I described the ban to conduct self-pride and pride (ujub). Arrogance is the absolute nature of God and God alone belongs only in the hadith says, that pride is the clothing of God who took the goods or the God wear it then God will put him in hell

As a human being versatile because 'khalifah', often act arrogant or boasting. Ujub arrogant and understanding in principle the same is considered himself more than anyone else, only difference is that pride in putting out to others while not displayed ujub and terberrsit only in the liver.

So the authors opinion, arrogant or ujub key is in the heart of each individual person. There are some simple tips that can prevent ourselves from feeling proud of myself this. Among them are;

1. convinced in my heart that God does not see anyone except the level of piety, since piety is the frame of the human alah assessment will not be inaccurate to guess one's faith.


2. Realize that the origins of human events it from the water setets vile and disgusting. Material human events if given the price tag is the origin of the chicken incident is more valuable material origin of the chicken incident. 1 kg of water sperm in a mall would not be sold, but material incident chicken (eggs) market will also be hunted by the people who need it from that we know that is not worth for us to ujub to ourselves.

3. By the time we went we always take the dirt that is in our stomachs, so disgusting when it comes out.

4. At the moment we die, the dead man is of no value, human carcass prices much lower price with a dead tiger skin can still be used for decoration.


CAUTION:
For men are not supposed to stay away from nature 'because the phase ujub human creation is despised at the time of her life she was carrying something as vile and he died in a state of abject and worthless. So do not be proud of yourself but remains confident that God will glorify someone not seen it happen but the origins of the side ... I'm so sorry times the moretips goods this time tomorrow moralist, but it was all done let us not fall into the valley of disgrace.